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My Heart Shift of Loneliness

By | 2016-08-14T17:45:40+00:00 August 20th, 2016|Sacred Relationship|

I wrote this about a year ago at Easter: There are moments when the feeling of being alone reaches down into the tail end of my spine with a soreness of too much exertion.? I take a long, slow, deep breath to calm my BEing.? But before I can respond the sensation hits my heart and [...]

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When Men Are Pigs

By | 2017-06-12T11:49:29+00:00 June 21st, 2016|Sacred Relationship|

When men are pigs, what choice do women have? There are many choices including oinking back. For me, I know that often my choice has been to let go of myself so that I can keep some semblance of a man/pig in my life and doing so without acknowledging or confronting the lousy choice I just made for me.

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Dating Rumi in the Kitchen

By | 2018-06-30T15:36:46+00:00 June 7th, 2016|Sacred Relationship|

I?ve recently had a change of location from the dance floor to the kitchen. Which is to say that I have changed my approach to this motion in my life called online dating. Why? Well ?.. new energy in me seeks a new metaphor for this my sacred search. For much of the last 18 months I?ve done the online dating routine seeing myself engaged in a dance of sorts. The swaying rhythm of this back and forth motion has always had the feeling of dance: lead, follow, step, step, quick step, slow. Sometimes wallflower, though occasionally he and I make it to the dance floor for a slow waltz -- even a couple of sizzling hot Salsas.

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Creeping White Lies

By | 2017-06-12T11:50:28+00:00 February 5th, 2014|Sacred Relationship|

Have you ever had a profound moment of clarity squeeze through in just one heart beat?? The kind of instant awareness in which something gnawing at you breaks free and springs into your consciousness without warning?? You catch your breath realizing, "Oh! My goodness! Of course!"? Clarity emerges.? In that one heartbeat, you feel yourself [...]