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# Good Girls' Field Guide to Bullshit Behaviors
- URL: https://www.cherylmarlene.com/good-girls-field-guide-to-bullshit-behaviors/
- Published: 2026-09-29T21:35:39.000Z
- Updated: 2026-09-29T22:22:11.000Z
- Description: A Spotter's Companion to the Things People Say to Keep You From Trusting Yourself
- Author: Cheryl Marlene
- Tags: #book, Auntie Universe

> **Publishing 4Q 2026**

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**You know that moment when someone says something perfectly reasonable, and yet something in you goes, *Wait. What the hell was that?***

That's what this *Good Girls' Field Guide* is for.

Bullshit doesn't always arrive looking like bullshit. Sometimes overlording BS comes dressed as concern or sounding like wisdom. Sometimes this mess comes wrapped in credentials, kindness, common sense, family loyalty, spiritual insight, professional expertise, or the familiar phrase *I'm only trying to help.*

Sometimes this crap even sounds like something you have been saying to yourself for years.

***Good Girl's Field Guide to Bullshit Behaviors*** is a spotter's companion for recognizing the behaviors, phrases, patterns, and little conversational maneuvers that get you to question yourself instead of questioning the silly behaviors of the overlording authorities.

Inside you'll find specimens in the wild: the moving goalpost, the concern troll, the expert who suddenly knows what you really mean, the person who makes your boundary evidence of your problem, the person who turns your disagreement into a diagnosis, and all the other bullshit behaviors that make you wonder whether you have somehow become the problem for noticing the problem.

This is not a guide to deciding that everyone is a jerk.

This is a guide to **seeing what is happening before you automatically make yourself wrong.**

You don't need to win the argument. You don't need to diagnose the other person. You don't need to prove that your interpretation is the correct one.

You the path to peace within is to be able to recognize the BS behavior.

Because once you can see the bullshit, you have more choices about what you do next.

***Consider this your field guide to the moment when your gut says, Something is off here, and your good-girl training says, Maybe it's me.***

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***Good Girls' Field Guide to Bullshit Behaviors*** will be published by the end of 2026 in multiple formats including full-color hard cover, paperback, and ebook. Explore the companion books, ***Question the F\*cking Assumption*** and ***Auntie Oracle,*** in the [**AuntieUniverse.com**](https://www.cherylmarlene.com/auntie-universe/).

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