Party of One I’ve done something really huge for myself. I’ve put me first. Usually, I defer to other, giving them the benefit of the doubt. I’m not saying that I shouldn’t seek to understand. No. I’m saying that my default position is to give up on what I want in the [...]
Choose You You can't choose me until you choose you. That's what stands before you: you. And choice. To be at choice with me requires that you choose you. I see the hesitation born from a life time of conciliatory gestures which have slowly killed you within the intimacy of the sacred [...]
Building Prince Charming As a writer, sometimes I write to entertain myself and have fun. The following piece is just simple fun. Enjoy! Once upon a time there was little girl who was very happy. She loved chasing butterflies, splashing in puddles in her rain boots, and blowing dandelions. But more than [...]
Destiny springs from our own personal characteristics, who we are, our natural gifts, our abilities and talents, our intentions for this life. In the unique possibility that is each human we find choice, that ability to make determination of our lives our own. Fulfillment of destiny becomes our ability to rise from the [...]
From the Summer of 2015 Edges.Recently I?ve been meeting with my edges. Some are newly introduced, others have appeared for re-audition. All meetings have reminded me of their usefulness in defining boundary and that wishy-washiness is a state to be sidestepped when possible.Edges. For clarity and depth. Edges. For evaluation and understanding.Let me step to my [...]
I've been hiking a lot lately which has me wading through hike descriptions, learning a new lingo. The exploratory hike is an adventure that is new to the hike leader. Either never hiked the chosen path or deciding to attempt it in a new way, the leader is signaling an unfamiliarity with the [...]
Life is always borne upon seeming contradictions: good and bad, simplicity and complexity, clarity and ambiguity. Life finds motion as energy in the resolution of contradiction because in truth from the soul's perspective there is no contradiction but balance.
Your life purpose doesn't exist in some magical world accessible only by the elite and the gifted. Your life purpose unfolds right before you each time you consider possibilities and feel within the truth of your next step.
One of the most insidious aspects of Fear is that it pushes us to do exactly the opposite of what will bring us relief and a perspective for powerful action. In other words, fear pushes us to act out of fear, to act because we are afraid. Fear wants us to blindly accept the terror of an only imagined future. Fear hopes to dupe us into acting against our best interests. Fear goads us into acting from aversion.
Q. What can I do to improve the conditions of my physical environment? A. In short, first align your being and then allow your actions to flow from the balanced center of your alignment. Here are the steps.
Let us start today by discussing resistance. This is a natural feeling within all beings as it is the natural reaction to the natural flow of life. Life has its own rhythm, balance and flow. As humans interact with Life, your own natural rhythms, balances and flows sometimes bump, sometimes flow, sometimes collide with Life. In the collision human beings most often interpret the collision as a sign that something is off, wrong, out of kilter with either Life, others, or themselves.