To orient yourself is to begin within.
Orientation sounds like something you do by looking out. To orient yourself is not understood to be an inner experience — rather an experience of relationships to your external world.
The conventional definition of orient once meant to turn and face east — toward the rising sun, the one fixed point of light out there — and then set yourself by its direction. Find the landmark. Face the authority. Take the map someone else drew. Oriented this way, you are always looking outside yourself to know where you stand.
Early childhood training orients the child to their external world. Almost everything is built to be your point of orientation — to tell you where you are, whether you're doing well, whether you're enough. And so we learn to check outside first, every time, before we'll trust that we know anything at all.
Here's the good-to-know: your ability to locate yourself doesn't actually come from out there. Your awareness of your bearings comes from within you. The way to know where you are isn't to find the external point and face it. Instead, it's to turn inward and feel for your own orientation.